First off, a little note – if you’re reading this, then I’m not talking about you. I know that sounds a bit odd, but the people I’m thinking about are people I met through my normal life activities.
Why…
… do I have to make the first move?
… do I have to put in all the effort to have a social life?
… did you never get in touch after you moved?
… do I have to follow everything up?
… do you assume I’m just being polite when I say I’d like to come round?
… when I call you, do you always say you were thinking about me?
I know what my reasons for not being good at staying in touch are, and yes, I share part of the blame. It’s difficult to deal with this stuff when you’re “ill”. But I don’t understand why you do it.
I really really miss you. I just wish you were missing me…
I know the feeling all too well. And in so many respects, I am the person you’re talking about. I hope the tooth has healed x
This resonates with me too.
*hugs*
I was thinking about this this morning. It’s my birthday and I was thinking of people to invite over and then I realised that I always end up inviting people around and they never reciprocate, so I wonder if it’s worth bothering. I hate making the first move – I’m shy and feel like I’m imposing myself on them.
I haven’t seen you for a long while. Hope you’re doing ok xx